Providing & Receiving Personal Service in D/s - Recorded Live 09/05/2024

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Original Workshop Description:

Providing & Receiving Personal Service in D/s

Service can be exciting and intimidating. Where do we start? How do we find someone to serve, and how do we negotiate that service? What if we want to receive service, how and where do we start? What makes for great service? In this class, Dare will discuss how to explore service as a submissive or dominant and create dynamics that work for us. Whether you’re interested in providing the occasional afternoon of cleaning or a 24/7 dynamic, they’ll talk about:

• "Training" - What it is and what it isn't

• Assessing and improving skills and abilities

• Finding opportunities to serve

• Setting boundaries while giving up control at the same time

• Anticipatory vs. directed service

• Common missteps and misunderstandings

About Dare:

Dare Campbell (they/them) is a sexuality and relationship educator and coach based in Tkaranto (Toronto, Ontario). They are a proudly queer, non-monogamous, pleasure-affirming community member who loves to facilitate discussions and experiences that strengthen relationships and encourage a sense of curiosity and exploration. Their education and coaching focus areas include self-love & acceptance, consent, communication, non-monogamy, & power exchange. An intersectional lens informs Dare’s coaching and workshop facilitation, recognizing that we live in a complex world with many identities, needs, and desires, and are often subject to systems that actively cause us harm. Dare is invested in growing their anti-oppressive practices. They welcome any feedback on how to make their teaching more accessible and inclusive.

In their classes and coaching, Dare provides participants with tools and examples that help them communicate more clearly and authentically with themselves and their partners. Dare believes that a collaborative approach, focused on creating a sense of safety and shared vulnerability, is the key to great sex, connection, and a love-filled life. They can be reached at their website https://www.learngrowrepeat.ca/.